How-To Guide #13 - Set Boundries

How to Set Boundaries with Fans (and Still Be Friendly)

Creator Dashboard – How-To Guide #13

You can be warm and welcoming without giving up your personal space. Setting clear boundaries helps you stay in control, protect your energy, and build respect with your fans. Here's how to do it the right way.

Setting Boundaries Guide

1. Decide What You're Comfortable With

  • Will you reply to DMs daily? Weekly? Never?
  • Are custom requests OK? Only if tipped?
  • Know your limits before you start engaging.

2. Use Pinned Posts to Set Expectations

  • Let fans know what you do and don't offer:
  • "I don't do customs or meet-ups, but feel free to message!"
  • "DMs open for subs only."

3. Say No Without Apologizing

  • Be direct, polite, and clear:
  • "Thanks for the message, but I don't offer customs."
  • "Please don't ask about real-life meetups."

4. Use Platform Tools to Stay in Control

  • You can mute, restrict, or block users at any time.
  • Don't engage with pushy or disrespectful fans—just remove them.
  • Boundaries are easier to hold when you use the tools available.

5. Reward Respectful Behavior

  • Say thank you when fans are kind, patient, or tip without demands.
  • Let subscribers know you notice their support.
  • This trains your fanbase to treat you right.

✅ Bonus Tip

You teach fans how to treat you by what you tolerate.